Song

Listening to Sheher on Sony Music Jive on Sony C2104 !http://www.sonymusic.com/

Pranav mistry...!!!

Indian mythology behind Pranav Mistry's tech edge http://toi.in/k4zlWb

What Heart Of A Computer Engineering Student Says...!!!

Sochte The College Ja Ke Padhai Karoonga, Naam Roshan Karoonga...
Par Mujhe Kya Pata Tha Ki Yahaan  Pyaar Ke Account Pe Log In Karoonga...!!!


Din Dino College Mein Ghooma N Classes Bunk Kiya...
Meri Aankhon Ne Finally Us Ko Search Kiya...!!!


Jo Sadiyon Se Hota Aaya Hai Woh Repeat Kar Doonga...
Vo Na Mili Toh Tujhko Dil Se Ctrl+Alt+Del Kar Doonga...!!!

College Ki Gals Beautiful N Lonely Hain...
Problem Ye Hai Ki Bus Voh Read Only Hain ... !!! 

Shayad Mere Pyaar Ko Taste Karna Bhool Gaye...
Dil Se Aisa Cut Kiya ki Paste Karna Bhool Gaye ...!!! 

Tumhare Saamne Hain Itne Items Kabhi Hume Bhi Pick Karo...
Hamare Pyaar Ke Icon Pe Kabhi Toh Tum Double Click Karo ...!!! 

Roz Subah Hum Karte Hain Itne Pyaar Se Unhe Good Morning...
Woh Hume Ghoor Kar Dekhte Hain Jaise C Program Mein 0 Errors But 5 Warning ...!!! 


Tumse Mila Main Kal Toh, Mere Dil Mein Hua Ek Sound...
Lekin Aaj Tum Mili Toh Kehti Ho "Your File Not Found" ...!!! 

Ab Aurr Kaho Na Tum Else Ya If...
Tum Ho Meri Zindagi Ki Animated GIF ...!!! 

Aisa Bhi Nahin Hai Ki I Dont Like Other Girl's Face...
Par Dil ke Computer Mein Sirf Tumhare Liye Hi Hai Enough Disk Space ...!!! 


Ghar Se Nikalti Ho Tum Jab, Pehen Ke Evening Gown...
Too Many Eyes See U Bt My Heart Simply Shut Down...!!!




Plzz Share It Honestly If U Lykk It.........!!!And Cumpulsory Share It If U r a Computer Engineering Student...!!!


Comp Roxxx...!!!
Engineering Roxxx...!!!

Happy New Year...!!!

Happiness deep down within

Serenity with each sunrise. 

Success in each facet of your life. 

Family beside you. 

Close and caring friends. 

Health, inside you. 

Love that never ends. 

Special memories of all the yesterdays. 

A bright today with much to be thankful for. 

A path that leads to beautiful tomorrows. 

Dreams that do their best to come true. 

Appreciation of all the wonderful things about you. 

Wishing you lots of Happiness, Success, Love n Good health

Engineering Roxxx...!!!! A Poem on Engineering Lyff...!!!

HeYa Friends......!!!

Enjoy This Poem on  Engineering Lyff....!!!

Engineer woh hai
Jo Aksar Fasta Hai...

Externals ke Sawaal mein...!!!
Internals ke Jaal mein...!!!
College ke Bawaal mein...!!!


Engineer woh hai
Jo Pak Gaya Hai...

Lectures ki Ladai mein ...!!!
Submissions ki Gehraai mein ...!!!
Assignments ki Khaayi mein ...!!!


Engineer woh hai
Jo Laga Rehta Hai...

Time-table ko Failane mein ...!!!
Events ko Khiskaane mein ...!!!
Roz Naye Bahaane Banane mein ...!!!

Engineer vo hai

Jo Yaad Karta Hai...

Papa ki Daant ko...!!!

Mummy ke Pyaar ko...!!!

Ghar ke Khane ko...!!!


Engineer woh hai...
Jo Time Spend Karta Hai...

Breakfast Lunch ke time mein...!!!
Lunch Dinner ke time mein...!!!
Uthne ke waqt Sone mein ...!!!


Engineer woh hai
Jo Paagal Hai...

Chai aur Samose ke Pyaar mein ...!!!
Music ke Khumaar mein ...!!!
Day-dreaming ke Vichaar mein ...!!!


Engineer woh hai
Jo Khoya Hai...

Messages ke Jawaabon mein ...!!!
Na milne waale Hisaabon mein ...!!!
Lover ke Khwaabon mein ...!!!


Engineer woh hai
Jise Intezaar Hai...

Weekend Nights par Dhoom Machaane ka ...!!!
College se Ghar Jaane ka ...!!!
Exams ke Result aane ka ...!!!


Engineer woh hai
Jo Sochta hai...

Kaash Padhaai par Dhyaan diya hota ...!!!
Kaash Proffessor se Panga Na Liya hota ...!!!
Kaash Pyaaarrr na kiya hota.... ...!!!

Kaash...!!!


Dedicated to All My Friends Who are Doing Engineering...!!!

Really..... Engineering Roxxx...!!!

School Ka "AKHRI" Din..........Kabhi Bhula Na Paoonga.....Vo School Life

Raah dekhi thi is din ki kabse,
Aage ke sapne saja rakhe the naajane kab se.
Bade utavle the yahaan se jaane ko ,
Zindagi ka agla padaav paane ko .

Par naa jane kyon …Dil mein aaj kuch aur aata hai,
Waqt ko rokne ka jee chahta hai.
Jin baton ko lekar rote the Aaj un par hansi aati hai ,
Na jaane kyon aaj un palon ki yaad bahut aati hai .
Kaha karte the …Badi mushkil se saal seh gaya,
Par aaj kyon lagta hai ki kuch peeche reh gaya.
Na bhoolne wali kuch yaadein reh gayi,
Yaadien jo ab jeene ka sahara ban gayi.

Meri taang ab kaun kheencha karega ,
Sirf mera sir khane kaun mera peecha karega.
Jahaan 2000 ka hisaab nahin wahaan 2 rupay ke liye kaun ladega,

Kaun raat bhar saath jag kar padega ,
KAUN MERI gaadi mujse pooche bina lejayega ,
Kaun mere naye naye naam banayega.
Mein ab bina matlab kis se ladoonga,
Bina topic ke kisse faalto baat karoonga ,

Kaun fail hone par dilasa dilayega,
Kaun galti se number aane par gaaliyaan sunayega .

Tapri mein Chai kis ke saath piyoonga ,
Wo haseen pal ab kis ke saath jiyoonga,

Aise dost kahaan milenge Jo khai mein bhi dhakka de aayein,
Par fir tumhein bachane khud bhi kood jayein.
Mere gaano se pareshaan kaun hoga ,
Kabhi muje kisi ladki se baat karte dekh hairaan kaun hoga ,

Kaun kahega saale tere joke pe hansi nahin aai ,
Kaun peeche se bula ke kahega..aage dekh bhai .
Movies mein kiske saath dekhhonga,
Kis ke saath boring lectures jheloonga ,
Bina dare sachi rai dene ki himmat kaun karega.

Achanak bin matlab ke kisi ko bhi dekh kar paglon ki tarah hansna,
Na jaane ye fir kab hoga . 

Doston ke liye professor se kab lad payenge ,
Kya hum ye fir kar payenge,

Raat ko 2 baje poha khane station kaun jayega ,
Tez gaadi chalane ki shart kaun lagayega .


Kaun muje mere kabiliyat par bharosa dilayega,
Aur jyada hawa mein udne par zameen pe layege ,

Meri khushi mein sach mein khush kaun hoga ,
Mere gam mein muj se jyada dukhi kaun hoga…

KEH DO DOSTON YE DOBAARA KAB HOGA

You Are An Internet Addicted Iff.........

You refer to going to the bathroom as downloading.


Your bookmark list takes 15 minutes to go from top to bottom.


Your nightmares are in HTML and GIFS.


You start introducing yourself as "Jim at net dot com."


Your heart races faster and beats irregularly each time you see a new WWW site address on TV.


You turn on your intercom when leaving the room so you can hear if new e-mail arrives.


All of your friends have an @ in their names.


Your dog has its own home page.


You can't call your mother... She doesn't have a modem.


Your phone bill is as heavy as a brick.


You don't know the sex of three of your closest friends because they have neutral nicknames and you never bothered to ask.


Your husband tells you that he has had the beard for 2 months.


You wake up at 3 a.m. to go to the bathroom and stop and check your e-mail on the way back to bed.


Your wife makes a new rule: "The computer cannot come to bed."


You ask a plumber how much it would cost to replace the chair in front of your computer with a toilet.


Your friend says communication is important in friendship... so you buy another computer and install a second phone line so the two of you can chat.

What Is Your Opinion About A Success Of A Team....???? Does It Depend On Mental Attitude Of The Whole Team ..???? Or On The Strongest Individuals..???

People often tend to join a team in which they have similar preferences and temperaments with other members. A group would also tend to choose people who meet its own features and specifications. In this case, the two sides mutually choose each other with naturally led to members of the group have a similar background and experience, common aspirations and expectations. The same attitude and interests create a super team from the homogenization of features, which enhance the understanding of each other and reduce the communication barriers or coordination costs, leading to the increase in team cohesion and concentration of action. A good example is Copenhagen school.
The shortcoming of group attitude in this way is a single and narrow thinking model. Its efficiency would depend on whether the groupthink adapt to the task environment. When facing a relatively regular and stable task, group consensus can reduce the sprawling harassments and reach a common understanding of conduct model. However, in a complex of uncertain situation and unexpected challenges, groupthink would be somewhat less constructive. Then the action should be implemented on basis of a wisdom crystallization of the ruling elites. At this point the groupthink is primarily a thinking of elite members, or even a personal idea of a group or organization leaders. It would be the dominant members impose personal views and value preferences on the entire team. Just like Bernard Shaw said: If the soldiers begin to think, they would have run away.
A super group is always courageous and executive. In addition, the prerequisite of success is the capabilities suiting the environment changes. The characteristic of groupthink is often a herd instinct. All people would follow the elites who are in a strong dominant position. Unless forming completely natural, groupthink in most cases is a kind of blind obedience. Therefore, for the leaders of the executive team, it is their judgments and managements that finally decide the fate of companies.
Instead of complaining the bias and adverse outcomes brought about by groupthink, we'd better define in advance the maximum degree of consensus a team needs to maintain, the maximum extent of suspicion, opposition and criticism which allowed to propose in public; To be arbitrary, or democracy concentrated; and whether the group can tolerate diversity of thought and behavior.

Exam Tension...तुझे सब है पता ..... है ना माँ .!!!!

मैं कभी बतलाता नहीं... पर exam से डरता हूँ मैं माँ ...|
यूं तो मैं दिखलाता नहीं ... marks की परवाह करता हूँ मैं माँ ..|
तुझे सब है पता ....है न माँ ||

किताबों में ...यूं न छोडो मुझे..
chapters के नाम भी न बतला पाऊँ माँ |
वह भी तो ...इतने सारे हैं....
याद भी अब तो आ न पाएं माँ ...|


क्या इतना गधा हूँ मैं माँ ..
क्या इतना गधा हूँ मैं माँ ..||

जब भी कभी ..invigilator मुझे ..
जो गौर से ..आँखों से घूरता है माँ ...
मेरी नज़र ..ढूंढे qstn paper...सोचूं यही ..
कोई सवाल तो बन जायेगा.....||

उनसे में ...यह कहता नहीं ..बगल वाले से टापता हूँ मैं माँ |
चेहरे पे ...आने देता नहीं...दिल ही दिल में घबराता हूँ माँ ||


तुझे सब है पता .. है न माँ ..|
तुझे सब है पता ..है न माँ ..||

मैं कभी बतलाता नहीं... par exam से डरता हूँ मैं माँ ...|
यूं तो मैं दिखलाता नहीं ... marks की परवाह करता हूँ मैं माँ ..|

Happy Friend.....Ship Of Life.!!!!!

Fragile creatures are we humans. After all what is needed to get us hurt? A faint laugh of ridicule…a harsh word…a smile not returned. Often do we fall down during our journey. Often do we get hurt. Most often we dust ourselves off and start again. A true friend, according to me, is someone who gives us a helping hand to get us back on our feet, pats off the dust from our back and revitalizes us for the journey ahead.


The world we live in is not as simple as it seems, nor is the millions of emotions that pass thru our minds every instant, what remains…what is perceived by us are not the tiny spots of black and white but the whole picture. No one is perfect. But sometimes these very imperfections are what make friends closer. These are the very black spots that make the picture beautiful. A friend is not necessarily the best person around, but they are those around whom we are the best. We don’t really choose our friends, we just fall into company. We may know a lot of people, but there are indeed few around whom we are really comfortable. They needn’t be the most entertaining, or the most compassionate person. They needn’t even be of the same age group. Sometimes friendship really is a means of escape. An escape from the problems at work or at home. An escape from the harsh, inescapable realities that hound our daily lives. A chilled beer with a group of really old, close friends will do more good at times like these than any advice or words of sympathy.


There are two kinds of friends-the present ones and the old ones. The present friends are those with whom we interact on a day to day basis. We often depend on them for help with our problems and help them with theirs. They are those with whom we spend most of our time with. They have a great influence on our behavior and our outlook towards society and our lives. Occasionally fights do tend to occur between even close friends. There is nothing like a good, really intense fight between friends to examine the strength of their friendship. Fights are indeed the acid test as far as friendships are concerned. Those which live thru them live on, closer than before, with a new found vigor. Above all, present friends are those whom we take for granted. There is nothing like their absence to remind us of them. We never really realize how many friends we have until; somehow, we are made to part.


Old wine and old friends are the best, or so the saying goes. There really is nothing like the reunion between old friends. Their sudden presence is what makes our hearts leap. They bring with them the memories of the old days. There really is no better antidepressant. The warm hugs you exchange on meeting, the of things long thought to be forgotten suddenly spring up in your conversation as if it just happened yesterday, reliving those embarrassing moments that nobody else knows…really, nothing like it.


Man is a social animal. Even today, one of the most terrible known forms of torture is solitary confinement. The pity is in the fact that there are people who inflict this dreadful torture on themselves. They confine themselves in prisons of their own minds; refusing to come out. The invisible shell that they have surrounded themselves with, though imaginary, is impregnable. Somebody said, the lock to heart’s door is within. Who are our true friends-those few whom we let into our secret worlds and shared our joys and sorrows, our most private sentiments, and listened to theirs-are not actually decided upon by us. They just come…good friends.

Farewell.......!!!

One Hundred Years From Now

One Hundred Years from now
It will not matter
What kind of car I drove,
What kind of house I lived in,
How much money was in my bank account
Nor what my clothes looked like.
But, the world may be a better place, because
I was important in the life of a child.
 

To My Friends

To my class,
I'm glad I was their friend

I've come to love them so.
I can't believe the end is here.
I hate to see them go.
Remembering all the fun we had
In all the things we did,
But, most of all remember...
 We all were a very special friend!
 

Cheers To All

Cheers to all, we did it now,
When times I thought they'd not…
 They made it through, the grueling days,
Of which there were a lot.

We gained insight, and on our way,

We put up a good fight…
And now we’re done, as we set out,
Our goal is now in sight.
 

Congratulations On Our Achievements

Congratulations on our achievements,
Opening a door not easily reached!
Now go through it on the other side
Great mountains become hills, and then just fields
Rolling eastward towards a rising sun.
All now is success and celebration,
The music of deeds done and barriers breached.
Underneath, uncertainties still glide
Lean and hungry as the sweet day yields,
And golden moments through your fingers run.
The rock on which you stand is your creation,
Illustrating what your teachers preached
Of learning and the provenance of pride.
Nor need you fear the wind, as knowledge shields
Such as earn it from what storms may come.
 

This Year Is Done

This year is done, the work behind, and now we go on out,
Pursue careers you’ve learned the scope, of things that go about…
In daily life as all grown up
And on your own you leave,
Home and school and parent’s arms,
Now by yourself – achieve.

And when we have our sights all set,
Apply our new found mind…
Try to make our way and let,
The wonders that we find…
Keep us on an even keel,
On the ladder we must climb.

School Life.....Best Life.!!!!

School is a daily routine for us
In the morning, we're sure to make a fuss
Even when the sun is still not up,
Here we are, awake at 6am sharp

We feel that school is such a bore
We feel that school is such a chore
Parents say, “School’s great! Now, go!”
We say, “Well, what do you know?”

Late a minute and we have to run
Eyes half open, shoelaces undone
We reach school and we see our friends,
Immediately, the torture ends

We have a chat and go with the flow
Then the bell rings, it is time to go
We may at times find school stressful
To have some fun, we have to bend some rules

Talk back to teachers, and detention we serve
No doubt, it is sometimes what we deserve
Sometimes they are as cold as ice
And other times they're actually really nice

They teach us and give us a helping hand
They’re forever ready to listen and be a friend
They have built much confidence in us
Just not when they are being really harsh

Over the years of education,
Never have we had so much learning with action
Such as camps, experiments, concerts and activities
We’ve learnt so much and even saved the trees

A wise teacher once said aloud -
Success is failure turned inside out
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit

Some may see school as a torture chamber
Some cannot wait for the holidays in December
But it depends on how we look at school
Honestly, positively, school is cool!

I M Missing My School Days

Yeh marks bhi lelo ye naukari bhi lelo,
Bhale Chheen lo mujhse USA ka Visa...........:0)

magar mujhko lauta do school ka canteen,vo chaay ka paani vo teekha samosaa..........:0)
kadi dhoop mein apne ghar se nikalnaa,

vo project ki Khatir shahar bhar bhataknaa,
vo lecture mein doston ki lagaanaa,

vo sir ko chidhanaa ,vo aeroplane udaanaa,
vo submission ki raton ko jagnaa jagaanaa,

vo orals ki kahani vo practical ka Kissaa.....:-)
bimaari ka reason de ke time badhanaa,

vo doosron ke assignments ko apnaa banaanaa,
vo seminar ke din pairon ka chhatpatanaa,

vo workshop mein din raat pasinaa bahanaa,
vo exam ke din ka bechain maahaul,

par vo maa ka vishvas - Teachar ka Bharosaa....:0)
vo pedon ke neeche gappe ladanaa,

vo raaton mein drawing sheets banaanaa,
vo exams ke akhari din theatre mein jaanaa,

vo bhole se chhote bacchon ko hamesha sataanaa,
without any reason common off pe jaanaa,

test ke waqt table mein kitabon ko rakhnaa,
isi tarah teachers ko dena Jhansaa........:0)

school ki sabse purani nishaanee,
vo peon jise saare kehte the... jaani,

vo jaani ke hathon se bajti ghantee,
vo chupkese journal mein bheji hui chitthi,

vo padhte hi chiththi uska bhadakna,
vo chehre ki laali vo aankhon ka Gussaa....:0)

school ki wo saari lambisi raatein,
vo doston se canteen mein pyaari si baatein,

vo gathering ke din ka ladnaa Jhagadnaa,
vo ladkiyon ka yuhin hamesha akadnaa,

bhulaaye nahin bhool sakta hai koi,
vo school, vo batein, vo shararatein vo javani...:0)

kaash hum phir dohra sakte kahani......
vo kagaz ki kashti vo barish ka pani...:0

The Causes Of Love.!!!

This is one of the most difficult questions for mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love.

What is love?

But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some, Love is friendship set on fire, for others, Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  Love is patient, love is kind, it has no envy, but the over all question remains,  

What causes Love?

Through case studies and informational journals, we will be able to attempt to understand the causes of this love. This literature review will examine three sources: The Physics and Chemistry of love by Kanika Gswami, Sexual arousal ‘very different’; confirmation of questionnaire methods by the American psychological society,  to help in the further understanding of this topic. It is found that love is closely related to the chemistry of the brain but it is still fair to believe that love is a feeling that comes from the heart.
In The Physics and Chemistry of love, Kanika Goswami speaks of how the common symptoms of love; such as, sweaty palms, shaky knees, and the occasional restlessness; are caused by a chemical found in the brain called Phenylethylamine. This specific chemical is released through simple actions such as the meeting of the eyes or holding hands. She finds that the discovery of this molecule is an important feat for all humanity as now chemists can truly create “love potions”, which would allow us to fall in love with the next person we see upon taking it. Now, some people may agree that the moral issues presented with this new discovery can be disputed against. For example, some may argue that the purpose of falling in love would loose all meaning. Others would see it as a simple and quick way to find happiness. In her article, Gswami states, “Love, like all things bound to the universe, is non existent without some amount of physics and chemistry attached to it. As a scientist cynically pointed out, cupid’s arrows would never have been effective if they had not been first dipped in one unromantically named chemical- phenylethylamine.” (Goswami 1)Thus, she is reverting back to the fairy tale of cupid and his love bringing arrow while at the same time saying that it is not some child dressed in sanitary underwear who causes you to fall in love with a small strike of his imaginary arrow, however, it is all the cause of the so called “love molecule”. She goes on to say that it is in fact our subconscious mind that chooses the person whom allows us to release this molecule from our brain. This choosing process is filtered through people who represent something we feel that we lost during our growing up years. For example it could be something like security, warmth, or spirit of adventure. Overall, Kanika Goswami believes that it is up to the mind to decide who we will love and cherish forever. It is that little molecule that gives many people that over joyous sense of happiness.
The next source, Sexual arousal ‘very different’; confirmation of questionnaire methods, speaks of whether sex and love have any co-relation. Aron noted that his research answered the “historic question of whether love and sex are the same, or different, or whether romantic passion is just warmed over sexual arousal.”  He said, “Our findings show that the brain areas activated when someone looks at a photo of their beloved only partially overlap with the brain regions associated with sexual arousal. Sex and romantic love involve quite different brain systems” (American psych association 1). This may have a very good explanation for this following story: “I was wondering about this because I fell in love with a girl who I know quite well because we were good friends before I fell in love with her so I know a lot about her life but her actions totally confuse me. She's known this guy who she finished with when she was 16 and apparently he was utterly devastated for about 2 years by the break-up but they remained friends, shared common music tastes, went to raves together and stuff even as she moved in with another bloke who she had a child by whilst he also had a relationship of 7 years or so, a relationship which mysteriously dissolved after she became free again, about a year after hers. What puzzles me is that she was quite open to me about how much she "loved" this guy but she said she just could not feel any physical passion for him, he did nothing for her in that way, and this was why she had finished with him way back when. More recently she said "It would be so convenient if I could fancy him because everything else is in place. I already love him, but I just don't feel it". Then a week or two ago when we were talking about him she became irritable when I reminded her of this comment and snapped "Yes, I'll have to try harder!" Then, last weekend, they announced that they were "an item", again. Meanwhile, I'm on the sidelines, I'm absolutely potty about this woman and I've been told categorically by 2 of her friends that she has told them that she IS physically attracted to me. Indeed, I've caught her eyes lingering on me a couple of times, but she's took the decision to go for "companionship" [as I suppose you would call it] rather than physical attraction. It seems to me that she has so thrown my elevated opinion of women into disarray by - I think - betraying both of us. Yeah, I say she's betrayed him, because I would dread being the man in a relationship where the woman is "faking it" and his touch doesn't really work for her, especially after 1 or 2 years of it. And what's she going to do for excitement? Have an affair with me? {I wouldn't be able to say "No", either}. So how does love work? It's a bloody messy business, that's all I know.” (forum 1)
The third and final source is Love physiology changes over time; ‘Romantic love more powerful than sex’ (American Psychology Association), speaks of the different part of the brain that play different roles as the relationship matures. Brown, one of the authors, noted that the neural activity changed in strength and location as the length of the romance is prolonged. These three areas consist of the sex drive, romantic love, and attachment to a long term partner. In the end, it is assumed that romantic love is defiantly is stronger than the sex drive.
The sources all speak of one common thing in relation to answering the age old question of what love really is. Assumingly, love has some definite relation to the mind. However, it is not yet determined what this co-relation is. Some psychologists believe that it is a chemical that is released by a certain part of the brain that mirrors love. Through this chemical we are lead to believe that love is occurring through the signals it triggers, such as shaky hands. Others add to this theory by saying that love is not found in one consistent part of the brain; rather, it is separated into three different parts (romantic, sexual, and long term). Furthermore, it is constantly repeated, by many psychologists, that the romantic and long term relationships tend to always prevail over those that satisfy our sex-drive. This fact has yet to be proved scientifically, however, it is shown through research that neural activity in these parts of the brain shifts as we are doing different activities with those whom we love. Moreover, to further prove the theory of the “love molecule”, it is shown that divorce rates peak around the first three years of marriage. This is assumed to be true because the addiction to the chemical becomes weaker and the person who we are currently with cannot supply enough for us to maintain the feeling of love that was present at the beginning of the relationship. It has also been theorized that a person goes through depression after a hard break up only because their body is going through a withdrawal of the so called love drug, phenylethylamine. I find all of these theories to be valid and they could indeed help us in the future. However, I have a different opinion on how these theories could allow us in creating love potions. Mainly for the moral issue that would subject humans to love that wasn’t truly real to them.
In conclusion, we found love to be a trick of the mind. It is our brain that leads us to have such a strong attraction to our partners. However, all of these findings simply lead us to explanations. It all depends on whether you choose to believe in these or not, is up to you. There is always going to be someone who chooses to believe that love comes from the heart. It is those people who will always cherish and treasure the person that they love.

Works Cited
Kanika Goswami. (2004).

Five Virtues Of Friendship..!!!

Given the radical changes that have plunged our world into a technology driven society, it's usually tough from time to time to differentiate between true friendship and an acquaintance. But building trust and true friendship isn't not possible and serves us well during times of need and jubilation. Having friends because they're wealthy or have the potential of being wealthy isn't true friendship. Having friends for the sole purpose of them being a means that to an finish isn't friendship. Even for the purpose of business it is essential to possess sure factors bred in our relationships to confirm that we keep true friends that we have a tendency to can support and receive support from in return.

1. Patience

Patience is the premise of any relationship. It's the de facto attribute for earning trust and understanding. While not patience no true friendship can last. Patience in friendship means that tolerance, means that forgiveness, suggests that having the ability to overlook certain shortfalls while waiting on our friends. Patience could be a kind of giving without passing on a physical gift. Patience is an investment for a future reward. The fruits of patience in any relationship are rarely noticeable till when an extended period of time.




2. Honesty

No true friendship might survive while not both people being honest to at least one another. As troublesome as it may be under bound circumstances the reality is often the best manner forward. It could hurt however this is what is desired in friendship. While not this then eventually this friendship is certain to finish up in disaster. Honesty builds trust and loyalty.



3. Humility

Friendship without humility is a waste of time. Humility means each parties would be willing to admit if they're wrong in a time of conflict. Humility conjointly means that both parties will listen and accept recommendation from every other.

4. Giving

In all friendship there should be some type of giving whether it is physical or spiritual or otherwise. It is the character of this partnership. Even tolerating another person's shortfalls could be a type of giving. This also means that being happy for a friend's success and not just ours'. Giving conjointly demonstrates loyalty. Loyalty means that standing by every other through good and bad. But it should be wiped out honesty. If this can be done correctly then it's giving.

5. Balance

All friendship must have balance for it to survive. One person cannot offer continuously while another receives. This sort of friendship never last. There are always complaints be it verbally expressed or mentally noted. Balance sets a basis for judging the friendship impartially. It eradicates envy and jealousy.
If these 5 factors are adhered to in any friendship then it's bound to grow and be long lasting.

Dream Of Childhood......!!

It has always been a childhood dream

To play for my Country with a high esteem

No wonder they say that hard work pays

Success can’t be determined by counting the number of days

Just One year ago, when I first wore my Team's Cap

Everyone thought I was an ordinary Chap

As days passed by and runs piled up

I told everyone that I was just warming up

When we played host to the team who always boast

We emerged as winners and I raised the toast

As Captain then, I firmly pledged

Success is to those who learn to pull a heavy sledge

As I reached the peak, and could play all strokes from the book

But had not realized the time it took

For several months I served my land

For now it was time to give it in a other’s hand

As I sat back remembering those memorable games

I was shocked that people could not remember our names

But all that I want is neither money nor fame

Just Cricket to be a Gentleman’s Game

10 Principles For Peace Of Mind...!!!

1. Do Not Interfere In Others' Business Unless Asked:
Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of
God.. God has created each one of us in a unique way.

No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way. All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them that way. Mind your own business and you will keep your peace.

2. Forgive And Forget:

This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive,20Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.


3. Do Not Crave For Recognition:

This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yourself in striving for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the aggravation. Do your duties ethically and sincerely.


4. Do Not Be Jealous:

We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No.

Remember everybody's life is shaped by his/her destiny, which has now become his/her reality. If you are destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your peace of mind.


5. Change Yourself According To The Environment:

If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious.


6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured:

This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms of patience, inner strength and will power.


7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew:

This maxim needs to be remembered constantly. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of carrying out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. . Why take on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in prayer, introspection and
meditation. This will reduce those thoughts in your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce greater peace of mind.


8. Meditate Regularly:

Meditation calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it yourself. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday, your mind will tend to become peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and half-hours. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before.

You would benefit by gradually increasing the period of daily meditation. You may think that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time.


9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant:

An empty mind is the devil's workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. Do something that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name.


10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret:

Do not waste time in protracted wondering " Should I or shouldn't I?" Days, weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done.

It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes, but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was destined to happen only that way. Why cry over spilt milk?.

Love Ur Life..!!!

Start Loving Yourself and Your Life 


1. Whose Life is This, Anyway? 
It's time to define your own reality and create the life that will make you happy. This is your life. Create your own standard to measure your success. Many of us have been brainwashed into believing society's definition of success: lots of money, a high-powered job, a picture-perfect family, a big extravagant home and a beautiful body. This might work for some people, but all too often we are left feeling dissatisfied, restless and sad. We can't all squeeze ourselves into the same mold, and we shouldn't want to. Take some time to figure out what you really want out of life and then develop a strategy to achieve it. Now let's begin with a few basic premises.

2. You Are a Unique Human Being. You Matter.
No one else is more important, worthy, or special than you. Just because someone is richer, more famous, or more attractive does not make them more valuable than you are. There is goodness and love in you. Do not treat your own physical, emotional, and spiritual health as an afterthought. Make your own well-being a priority. You deserve all the bounty this world has to offer. You are worth it.

3. Erase Negative Programming.
Do away with all the old, negative messages you were given about yourself. If someone has told you that you are worthless, undeserving, dense or unattractive, that is their problem. No one has a right to judge you or belittle you. We are all struggling to get by in this world, and no one else has all the answers. Honor your own truth. In your own heart, you know who you are . . . don't let another take that power away from you. Love yourself.

Mistake Of Saying..... " I LOVE YOU "

I Shouldn’t have said, ” I Love You”

And given my heart away.

I should have waited a bit longer

To see what would you say.

But what I was feeling inside of me

Was more than I could seem to keep.

Therefore, I opened up my heart to you

And out my liking blood did seep.

But, I am not sitting all alone

Know what or how to act.

My heart is not broken at all

Just trying to keep it all in-tacked.

Why did I have to like you so much?

Then share what I had felt with you?

I guess next time I’ll keep it to myself

That is the easier of my alternative to do.

This is Only for You.... 

On My Own........!!!

From the time I was born,
I had this ‘HABIT’ that I had worn,
Everything that I had sworn,
I always did it on my own.

My father shouted, “You Fool !! You can’t even learn “,
I was sad coz he was not aware of the candles I burn ,
He said I would remain static , wouldn’t move neither up nor down,
The odds were against me and I had leave my town.

I was new to this place and didn’t know what to do,
I needed someone that would guide me through.
My wait was over and my journey was reserved,
The place gave me strength and power I deserved.

But After many years when I got this call from my town ,
He asked me whether I wanted to be an Engineer or a clown,
“An Engineer “, I said with a fake frown,
For once he was happy that I had did it on my own.

My mother shouted,”Sonu !! How will you live in a Hostel, You can’t even cook !! “,
I felt bad and promised her that I would give it a look.
She knew I would starve, but never give up trying,
In a couple of days I became an expert in frying.

One day when I made an omlette she couldn’t help but groan,
With a smile on my face I said ,”Atleast, I did it on my own ”
All I want to say is no matter who you are,
whether you live here or miles too far,

Some things need to be done ,
Things whose seeds need to be sown,
That makes you independent and helps you do things on your own…things on your own…