Farewell.......!!!

One Hundred Years From Now

One Hundred Years from now
It will not matter
What kind of car I drove,
What kind of house I lived in,
How much money was in my bank account
Nor what my clothes looked like.
But, the world may be a better place, because
I was important in the life of a child.
 

To My Friends

To my class,
I'm glad I was their friend

I've come to love them so.
I can't believe the end is here.
I hate to see them go.
Remembering all the fun we had
In all the things we did,
But, most of all remember...
 We all were a very special friend!
 

Cheers To All

Cheers to all, we did it now,
When times I thought they'd not…
 They made it through, the grueling days,
Of which there were a lot.

We gained insight, and on our way,

We put up a good fight…
And now we’re done, as we set out,
Our goal is now in sight.
 

Congratulations On Our Achievements

Congratulations on our achievements,
Opening a door not easily reached!
Now go through it on the other side
Great mountains become hills, and then just fields
Rolling eastward towards a rising sun.
All now is success and celebration,
The music of deeds done and barriers breached.
Underneath, uncertainties still glide
Lean and hungry as the sweet day yields,
And golden moments through your fingers run.
The rock on which you stand is your creation,
Illustrating what your teachers preached
Of learning and the provenance of pride.
Nor need you fear the wind, as knowledge shields
Such as earn it from what storms may come.
 

This Year Is Done

This year is done, the work behind, and now we go on out,
Pursue careers you’ve learned the scope, of things that go about…
In daily life as all grown up
And on your own you leave,
Home and school and parent’s arms,
Now by yourself – achieve.

And when we have our sights all set,
Apply our new found mind…
Try to make our way and let,
The wonders that we find…
Keep us on an even keel,
On the ladder we must climb.

School Life.....Best Life.!!!!

School is a daily routine for us
In the morning, we're sure to make a fuss
Even when the sun is still not up,
Here we are, awake at 6am sharp

We feel that school is such a bore
We feel that school is such a chore
Parents say, “School’s great! Now, go!”
We say, “Well, what do you know?”

Late a minute and we have to run
Eyes half open, shoelaces undone
We reach school and we see our friends,
Immediately, the torture ends

We have a chat and go with the flow
Then the bell rings, it is time to go
We may at times find school stressful
To have some fun, we have to bend some rules

Talk back to teachers, and detention we serve
No doubt, it is sometimes what we deserve
Sometimes they are as cold as ice
And other times they're actually really nice

They teach us and give us a helping hand
They’re forever ready to listen and be a friend
They have built much confidence in us
Just not when they are being really harsh

Over the years of education,
Never have we had so much learning with action
Such as camps, experiments, concerts and activities
We’ve learnt so much and even saved the trees

A wise teacher once said aloud -
Success is failure turned inside out
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit

Some may see school as a torture chamber
Some cannot wait for the holidays in December
But it depends on how we look at school
Honestly, positively, school is cool!

I M Missing My School Days

Yeh marks bhi lelo ye naukari bhi lelo,
Bhale Chheen lo mujhse USA ka Visa...........:0)

magar mujhko lauta do school ka canteen,vo chaay ka paani vo teekha samosaa..........:0)
kadi dhoop mein apne ghar se nikalnaa,

vo project ki Khatir shahar bhar bhataknaa,
vo lecture mein doston ki lagaanaa,

vo sir ko chidhanaa ,vo aeroplane udaanaa,
vo submission ki raton ko jagnaa jagaanaa,

vo orals ki kahani vo practical ka Kissaa.....:-)
bimaari ka reason de ke time badhanaa,

vo doosron ke assignments ko apnaa banaanaa,
vo seminar ke din pairon ka chhatpatanaa,

vo workshop mein din raat pasinaa bahanaa,
vo exam ke din ka bechain maahaul,

par vo maa ka vishvas - Teachar ka Bharosaa....:0)
vo pedon ke neeche gappe ladanaa,

vo raaton mein drawing sheets banaanaa,
vo exams ke akhari din theatre mein jaanaa,

vo bhole se chhote bacchon ko hamesha sataanaa,
without any reason common off pe jaanaa,

test ke waqt table mein kitabon ko rakhnaa,
isi tarah teachers ko dena Jhansaa........:0)

school ki sabse purani nishaanee,
vo peon jise saare kehte the... jaani,

vo jaani ke hathon se bajti ghantee,
vo chupkese journal mein bheji hui chitthi,

vo padhte hi chiththi uska bhadakna,
vo chehre ki laali vo aankhon ka Gussaa....:0)

school ki wo saari lambisi raatein,
vo doston se canteen mein pyaari si baatein,

vo gathering ke din ka ladnaa Jhagadnaa,
vo ladkiyon ka yuhin hamesha akadnaa,

bhulaaye nahin bhool sakta hai koi,
vo school, vo batein, vo shararatein vo javani...:0)

kaash hum phir dohra sakte kahani......
vo kagaz ki kashti vo barish ka pani...:0

The Causes Of Love.!!!

This is one of the most difficult questions for mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love.

What is love?

But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some, Love is friendship set on fire, for others, Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  Love is patient, love is kind, it has no envy, but the over all question remains,  

What causes Love?

Through case studies and informational journals, we will be able to attempt to understand the causes of this love. This literature review will examine three sources: The Physics and Chemistry of love by Kanika Gswami, Sexual arousal ‘very different’; confirmation of questionnaire methods by the American psychological society,  to help in the further understanding of this topic. It is found that love is closely related to the chemistry of the brain but it is still fair to believe that love is a feeling that comes from the heart.
In The Physics and Chemistry of love, Kanika Goswami speaks of how the common symptoms of love; such as, sweaty palms, shaky knees, and the occasional restlessness; are caused by a chemical found in the brain called Phenylethylamine. This specific chemical is released through simple actions such as the meeting of the eyes or holding hands. She finds that the discovery of this molecule is an important feat for all humanity as now chemists can truly create “love potions”, which would allow us to fall in love with the next person we see upon taking it. Now, some people may agree that the moral issues presented with this new discovery can be disputed against. For example, some may argue that the purpose of falling in love would loose all meaning. Others would see it as a simple and quick way to find happiness. In her article, Gswami states, “Love, like all things bound to the universe, is non existent without some amount of physics and chemistry attached to it. As a scientist cynically pointed out, cupid’s arrows would never have been effective if they had not been first dipped in one unromantically named chemical- phenylethylamine.” (Goswami 1)Thus, she is reverting back to the fairy tale of cupid and his love bringing arrow while at the same time saying that it is not some child dressed in sanitary underwear who causes you to fall in love with a small strike of his imaginary arrow, however, it is all the cause of the so called “love molecule”. She goes on to say that it is in fact our subconscious mind that chooses the person whom allows us to release this molecule from our brain. This choosing process is filtered through people who represent something we feel that we lost during our growing up years. For example it could be something like security, warmth, or spirit of adventure. Overall, Kanika Goswami believes that it is up to the mind to decide who we will love and cherish forever. It is that little molecule that gives many people that over joyous sense of happiness.
The next source, Sexual arousal ‘very different’; confirmation of questionnaire methods, speaks of whether sex and love have any co-relation. Aron noted that his research answered the “historic question of whether love and sex are the same, or different, or whether romantic passion is just warmed over sexual arousal.”  He said, “Our findings show that the brain areas activated when someone looks at a photo of their beloved only partially overlap with the brain regions associated with sexual arousal. Sex and romantic love involve quite different brain systems” (American psych association 1). This may have a very good explanation for this following story: “I was wondering about this because I fell in love with a girl who I know quite well because we were good friends before I fell in love with her so I know a lot about her life but her actions totally confuse me. She's known this guy who she finished with when she was 16 and apparently he was utterly devastated for about 2 years by the break-up but they remained friends, shared common music tastes, went to raves together and stuff even as she moved in with another bloke who she had a child by whilst he also had a relationship of 7 years or so, a relationship which mysteriously dissolved after she became free again, about a year after hers. What puzzles me is that she was quite open to me about how much she "loved" this guy but she said she just could not feel any physical passion for him, he did nothing for her in that way, and this was why she had finished with him way back when. More recently she said "It would be so convenient if I could fancy him because everything else is in place. I already love him, but I just don't feel it". Then a week or two ago when we were talking about him she became irritable when I reminded her of this comment and snapped "Yes, I'll have to try harder!" Then, last weekend, they announced that they were "an item", again. Meanwhile, I'm on the sidelines, I'm absolutely potty about this woman and I've been told categorically by 2 of her friends that she has told them that she IS physically attracted to me. Indeed, I've caught her eyes lingering on me a couple of times, but she's took the decision to go for "companionship" [as I suppose you would call it] rather than physical attraction. It seems to me that she has so thrown my elevated opinion of women into disarray by - I think - betraying both of us. Yeah, I say she's betrayed him, because I would dread being the man in a relationship where the woman is "faking it" and his touch doesn't really work for her, especially after 1 or 2 years of it. And what's she going to do for excitement? Have an affair with me? {I wouldn't be able to say "No", either}. So how does love work? It's a bloody messy business, that's all I know.” (forum 1)
The third and final source is Love physiology changes over time; ‘Romantic love more powerful than sex’ (American Psychology Association), speaks of the different part of the brain that play different roles as the relationship matures. Brown, one of the authors, noted that the neural activity changed in strength and location as the length of the romance is prolonged. These three areas consist of the sex drive, romantic love, and attachment to a long term partner. In the end, it is assumed that romantic love is defiantly is stronger than the sex drive.
The sources all speak of one common thing in relation to answering the age old question of what love really is. Assumingly, love has some definite relation to the mind. However, it is not yet determined what this co-relation is. Some psychologists believe that it is a chemical that is released by a certain part of the brain that mirrors love. Through this chemical we are lead to believe that love is occurring through the signals it triggers, such as shaky hands. Others add to this theory by saying that love is not found in one consistent part of the brain; rather, it is separated into three different parts (romantic, sexual, and long term). Furthermore, it is constantly repeated, by many psychologists, that the romantic and long term relationships tend to always prevail over those that satisfy our sex-drive. This fact has yet to be proved scientifically, however, it is shown through research that neural activity in these parts of the brain shifts as we are doing different activities with those whom we love. Moreover, to further prove the theory of the “love molecule”, it is shown that divorce rates peak around the first three years of marriage. This is assumed to be true because the addiction to the chemical becomes weaker and the person who we are currently with cannot supply enough for us to maintain the feeling of love that was present at the beginning of the relationship. It has also been theorized that a person goes through depression after a hard break up only because their body is going through a withdrawal of the so called love drug, phenylethylamine. I find all of these theories to be valid and they could indeed help us in the future. However, I have a different opinion on how these theories could allow us in creating love potions. Mainly for the moral issue that would subject humans to love that wasn’t truly real to them.
In conclusion, we found love to be a trick of the mind. It is our brain that leads us to have such a strong attraction to our partners. However, all of these findings simply lead us to explanations. It all depends on whether you choose to believe in these or not, is up to you. There is always going to be someone who chooses to believe that love comes from the heart. It is those people who will always cherish and treasure the person that they love.

Works Cited
Kanika Goswami. (2004).

Five Virtues Of Friendship..!!!

Given the radical changes that have plunged our world into a technology driven society, it's usually tough from time to time to differentiate between true friendship and an acquaintance. But building trust and true friendship isn't not possible and serves us well during times of need and jubilation. Having friends because they're wealthy or have the potential of being wealthy isn't true friendship. Having friends for the sole purpose of them being a means that to an finish isn't friendship. Even for the purpose of business it is essential to possess sure factors bred in our relationships to confirm that we keep true friends that we have a tendency to can support and receive support from in return.

1. Patience

Patience is the premise of any relationship. It's the de facto attribute for earning trust and understanding. While not patience no true friendship can last. Patience in friendship means that tolerance, means that forgiveness, suggests that having the ability to overlook certain shortfalls while waiting on our friends. Patience could be a kind of giving without passing on a physical gift. Patience is an investment for a future reward. The fruits of patience in any relationship are rarely noticeable till when an extended period of time.




2. Honesty

No true friendship might survive while not both people being honest to at least one another. As troublesome as it may be under bound circumstances the reality is often the best manner forward. It could hurt however this is what is desired in friendship. While not this then eventually this friendship is certain to finish up in disaster. Honesty builds trust and loyalty.



3. Humility

Friendship without humility is a waste of time. Humility means each parties would be willing to admit if they're wrong in a time of conflict. Humility conjointly means that both parties will listen and accept recommendation from every other.

4. Giving

In all friendship there should be some type of giving whether it is physical or spiritual or otherwise. It is the character of this partnership. Even tolerating another person's shortfalls could be a type of giving. This also means that being happy for a friend's success and not just ours'. Giving conjointly demonstrates loyalty. Loyalty means that standing by every other through good and bad. But it should be wiped out honesty. If this can be done correctly then it's giving.

5. Balance

All friendship must have balance for it to survive. One person cannot offer continuously while another receives. This sort of friendship never last. There are always complaints be it verbally expressed or mentally noted. Balance sets a basis for judging the friendship impartially. It eradicates envy and jealousy.
If these 5 factors are adhered to in any friendship then it's bound to grow and be long lasting.

Dream Of Childhood......!!

It has always been a childhood dream

To play for my Country with a high esteem

No wonder they say that hard work pays

Success can’t be determined by counting the number of days

Just One year ago, when I first wore my Team's Cap

Everyone thought I was an ordinary Chap

As days passed by and runs piled up

I told everyone that I was just warming up

When we played host to the team who always boast

We emerged as winners and I raised the toast

As Captain then, I firmly pledged

Success is to those who learn to pull a heavy sledge

As I reached the peak, and could play all strokes from the book

But had not realized the time it took

For several months I served my land

For now it was time to give it in a other’s hand

As I sat back remembering those memorable games

I was shocked that people could not remember our names

But all that I want is neither money nor fame

Just Cricket to be a Gentleman’s Game

10 Principles For Peace Of Mind...!!!

1. Do Not Interfere In Others' Business Unless Asked:
Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of
God.. God has created each one of us in a unique way.

No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way. All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them that way. Mind your own business and you will keep your peace.

2. Forgive And Forget:

This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive,20Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.


3. Do Not Crave For Recognition:

This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yourself in striving for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the aggravation. Do your duties ethically and sincerely.


4. Do Not Be Jealous:

We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No.

Remember everybody's life is shaped by his/her destiny, which has now become his/her reality. If you are destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your peace of mind.


5. Change Yourself According To The Environment:

If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious.


6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured:

This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms of patience, inner strength and will power.


7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew:

This maxim needs to be remembered constantly. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of carrying out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. . Why take on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in prayer, introspection and
meditation. This will reduce those thoughts in your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce greater peace of mind.


8. Meditate Regularly:

Meditation calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it yourself. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday, your mind will tend to become peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and half-hours. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before.

You would benefit by gradually increasing the period of daily meditation. You may think that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time.


9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant:

An empty mind is the devil's workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. Do something that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name.


10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret:

Do not waste time in protracted wondering " Should I or shouldn't I?" Days, weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done.

It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes, but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was destined to happen only that way. Why cry over spilt milk?.

Love Ur Life..!!!

Start Loving Yourself and Your Life 


1. Whose Life is This, Anyway? 
It's time to define your own reality and create the life that will make you happy. This is your life. Create your own standard to measure your success. Many of us have been brainwashed into believing society's definition of success: lots of money, a high-powered job, a picture-perfect family, a big extravagant home and a beautiful body. This might work for some people, but all too often we are left feeling dissatisfied, restless and sad. We can't all squeeze ourselves into the same mold, and we shouldn't want to. Take some time to figure out what you really want out of life and then develop a strategy to achieve it. Now let's begin with a few basic premises.

2. You Are a Unique Human Being. You Matter.
No one else is more important, worthy, or special than you. Just because someone is richer, more famous, or more attractive does not make them more valuable than you are. There is goodness and love in you. Do not treat your own physical, emotional, and spiritual health as an afterthought. Make your own well-being a priority. You deserve all the bounty this world has to offer. You are worth it.

3. Erase Negative Programming.
Do away with all the old, negative messages you were given about yourself. If someone has told you that you are worthless, undeserving, dense or unattractive, that is their problem. No one has a right to judge you or belittle you. We are all struggling to get by in this world, and no one else has all the answers. Honor your own truth. In your own heart, you know who you are . . . don't let another take that power away from you. Love yourself.

Mistake Of Saying..... " I LOVE YOU "

I Shouldn’t have said, ” I Love You”

And given my heart away.

I should have waited a bit longer

To see what would you say.

But what I was feeling inside of me

Was more than I could seem to keep.

Therefore, I opened up my heart to you

And out my liking blood did seep.

But, I am not sitting all alone

Know what or how to act.

My heart is not broken at all

Just trying to keep it all in-tacked.

Why did I have to like you so much?

Then share what I had felt with you?

I guess next time I’ll keep it to myself

That is the easier of my alternative to do.

This is Only for You.... 

On My Own........!!!

From the time I was born,
I had this ‘HABIT’ that I had worn,
Everything that I had sworn,
I always did it on my own.

My father shouted, “You Fool !! You can’t even learn “,
I was sad coz he was not aware of the candles I burn ,
He said I would remain static , wouldn’t move neither up nor down,
The odds were against me and I had leave my town.

I was new to this place and didn’t know what to do,
I needed someone that would guide me through.
My wait was over and my journey was reserved,
The place gave me strength and power I deserved.

But After many years when I got this call from my town ,
He asked me whether I wanted to be an Engineer or a clown,
“An Engineer “, I said with a fake frown,
For once he was happy that I had did it on my own.

My mother shouted,”Sonu !! How will you live in a Hostel, You can’t even cook !! “,
I felt bad and promised her that I would give it a look.
She knew I would starve, but never give up trying,
In a couple of days I became an expert in frying.

One day when I made an omlette she couldn’t help but groan,
With a smile on my face I said ,”Atleast, I did it on my own ”
All I want to say is no matter who you are,
whether you live here or miles too far,

Some things need to be done ,
Things whose seeds need to be sown,
That makes you independent and helps you do things on your own…things on your own…

Now That's Love..!!!

When I was in school,
life was just so cool,
With her being there I knew that someone would care.

But being shy,I could never say “HI!!”,
I was left speechless every time she passed by,
But being confident about that she would never say NO,
I went to her and said it “ALL IN ONE GO”.
With a pleasant smile when she said “YES!!”,
OH!!! tihs is something that i can’t express.

Now,when all was fine,
Suddenly a friend of mine
Who knew it all, said it in front of the hall
She felt bad, and walked away.
With tears in her eyes,she had nothing to say.
As she left my heart sank, I hated my friend for his dirty prank.

As years passed by my love was put to the test,
But her letter today puts everything to rest.
She says that everything happened courtesy that pest,
She hadn’t realized that “MY LOVE WAS AT ITS BEST!!!!!”.

Missing Those School Days.....Wanna Go Back......!!!

When

The school reopened in June,

And we settled in our new desks and

benches!

When we queued up in book depot,

And got our new books

and notes!

When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet

managed to line up daily for the morning prayers...

We learnt writing with

slates and pencils, and

Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro tips!

When we began drawing with crayons and evolved to

Color pencils and finally sketch pens!

When we started calculating

first with tables and then with

Clarke's tables and advanced to

Calculators and computers!

When we chased one another in the

corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms

Drenched in sweat!

Whenwe had lunch in classrooms, corridors,

Playgrounds,

under the trees and even in cycle sheds!

When all the colors in the world,

Decorated the campus on the Second Saturdays!

When a single P.T. period in the week's TimeTable,Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!

When cricket was played with writing pads as bats, And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!

When few played 'kabadi' and 'Kho-Kho' in scorching sun, While others simply played

'book cricket' in the Confines of classroom!

Of fights but no conspiracies,

Of Competitions but seldom jealousy!

When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast,

In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks!

When few rushed at 3:45 to

'Conquer' window seats in our School bus!

While few others had 'Big Fun', 'peppermint' ,

'kulfi', ' milk ice !' and 'sharbat !' at 4o Clock!

Gone are the days Of Sports Day,

and the annual School Day ,

And the one-month long

preparations for them.

Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most enjoyed holidays after them!

Gone are the days Of tenth and twelfth standards, when We Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests!

We learnt,

We enjoyed,

We played,

We won,

We lost,

We laughed,

We cried,

We fought,

We thought.

With so much fun in them, so many friends,

So much experience, all this and more!

Gone are the days When we used

to talk for hours with our friends!

Now we don't have time to say a `Hi'!

Gone are the days When we played games on the road! Now we Code on the road with laptop!

Gone are the days, When we saw stars Shining at Night! Now we see stars when our code doesn't Work!

Gone are the days, When we sat to chat with Friends on grounds! Now we chat in chat rooms.......!

Gone are the days, Where we studied just to pass! Now we study to save our job!

Fake Life On Internet....!!!

Hi ! its ShivPrasad Mohite , today talking about FAKE LIFE ON INTERNET
I always loved chatting,always loved to meet new people from different backgrounds and different countries. But never thought about its darker side. It feels awesome to know people from different areas ,and about them and their diversity.

It really makes you connected to the whole world. and you sometimes even feel like a star that so many people know you and we keep on adding and adding on without even knowing whom we are adding.

In our big friends circle we get some very good friends who we think are lucky for us to have them and we really get so close to them that we get connected to them even at emotional level.We start giving priorities to them. We really add them in our life. But i think thats theworst think we do.

I made many friends on internet and some of them were really so selective and i found them unique. They were really my cup of tea. I remember i used to chat with them everyday and soon phone numbers exchanged and i really wished to meet every of them who i liked. Some were away from pune so it was hard for them to come but some were in pune itself. I was feeling lucky.

But i didnt know the real boom behind all this internet game. My biggest mistake was that i was emotinally connected to them. I trusted them like anything because they were so so good to me.If anyone commnicates with you in polite manner and give you the respect which you seek for then i really wish whom so ever would be at my place would feel great in having them.

I even met many of the friends at hotels and at clubs whom i was introduced on internet. When any person comes in contact with you in real then anyone at my place would probably trust the person. I am a very emotional and sentimental guy ,i never learnt the tactics of being arty or plastic.

I even dont know how to show off or make anyone jealous. I am an open book to everyone. So i was to them as well. I remember some of my friends on internet became so close to me that i really not liked but loved there company.

I really disclosed everything to them . About my life ,my likings , my darker side , my weakness , i guess everything and it really felt so calm inside to get a good friend who know you better than anyone and to whom you can say what you feel and can be a free bird in his/her world.

we all know that we cant share everything with parents , are friends are the only one we think of first . As they too have thoughts and secrets like us.

Once i was browsing the internet and found one of my friends profile on some other site with different name and different information about him. I was shocked. I didnt knew what was happening..i guess he was really not a human.

He knew that he is continuously lying to me everytime and he didnt even thought for a while that the person he is lying to is so blindly trusting him like anything. It was really immature for him too that. I felt like a fool. Yes i was a fool. Then suddenly he told me on phone about his identity but it was too late for him to reply.

But the issue is not about him its about why people do that??

Why people fake there identity?

There may be many reasons.

Privacy: really if they want privacy then why making account on internet...??

Or may be they dont trust the person they are talking to:

compeletly justified. We cant trust anyone on internet ust like that. And we even dont know whom we are talking to ...so i think its right but when u are communicating with a person who you know personally now..so in that case one should atleast reveal true identrity..

or the last reason may be wrong intentions. There are people on internet who do these jobs to make easy money and to blackmail people. They first make you your friend and then try to build up trust and then boom they show there true colours by doing any bad thing with your image or by hacking your account. I think thats a ridiculous way of making money. These are greedy people who dont have self respect and they choose these cheap jobs to humilate people.

there are people on internet with wrong intentions but that dosent mean that we have to think everybody as same..

So the bottom line is internet was never safe . so I got a lesson of not trusting anyone on net . So you must also protect urself from being fooled by those cheap jerks who think they are smart ......

Cricket : My Passion

Cricket is my passion and batting is my soul. If I will not become an Engineer, I will have to become a cricketer. When and where cricket sparked my imagination, I don't know, but I can relate to cricket just like I can relate to my food. My first tryst with cricket was galli cricket. I still remember the day my dad got me my first cricket kit, a plastic one though. We brothers went to galli and invited everyone to join us for a game of cricket. My mom was furious because of that gift, but believe me I was very happy. The day I hit my first six, I knew thats the way to live life. And the same day I took my first wicket , The desire to become a cricketer was born in my heart.

Cricket is food for my body and I have nourished my body by spending long hours at nets and watching game for entire length. I can still remember those early days, days of Mohindar Amarnath show and watching the matches of Sachin Tendulkar. A show which has taught me my batting skills. My constant dedication with the show and shadow practice fructified in form of my first half century against rival friends. That Innings of grit and determination cemented my faith in cricket and I can do it approach in my life.

My first big break came when I was 14 year old. I was selected for district level tournament by my school coach and I was very delighted to be away from home and giving a big performance. Though I didnt make a big score in that tournament but bowled very well, the memories of first robbery of my luggage and road side dhabba are etched in my memory. After this disappointing performance, I decided to go for proper coaching, but my family didnt allow me to go for it and my cricketer friends were banished from entering my house. As per my family rules,
Padoge likhoge to banoge Nawab.....kheloge kudoge to ho jaoge kharab.

Well, I subjugated to this philosophy, performed to the expectations of my family, but I couldnt abjure the lust of cricket. I tried reinventing myself every time I was bogged down with faliures by playing cricket. Cricket has been a good friend and I have lived with it all my life ,till my studies and made my all dreams come true. Be it playing in Army Area's ground, hitting Shashank for 4 sixes in a over, be it playing in mumbai leagues, or be it playing match winning innings at Pune. Cricket gave me some of my best friends, made possible meeting of friends for life. I would like to thank this great colonial game for transforming my life and making it a cherishable journey.

Passion...............!!!

I give in. My passion for writing is growing larger and larger each day, it has become the only thing I think about on a daily basis. It’s turning into a nuisance! I curse it to the back of my head every time it comes to fore thought. It twists my guts into an almost wrenching pain when I don’t have the chance to write something down on a piece of paper and make it my own. It forces the air from my chest as if I were a cartoon character with an anvil flattened. Where did I get this from, you ask? Let me tell you a story that explains my passion. Sit back, and enjoy the ride.
Soar through the sky with dragons, their hot breath on your neck as you hit the ground tumbling. The blistering win cracking your skin from the powerful wings that beat wildly to land with such easy and natural grace. Before your able to catch your breath, after witnessing the beautiful landing, you hear the cries of shock and pain as an arrogant man has mortally wounded one of your lizard brethren. Azhrei, ‘dragon prince,’ is what they called him because of the enhanced cunningness and intellect he used to destroy the life of this beloved beast.
Dragon Prince by Melanie Rawn comes in nine books, and explains the attachments of fantasy and fiction to romance and war. The beginning of my intrigue to this novel was the end, I had rather impulsively, skipped to the end. As I returned to the beginning, I was enthralled to see the turn of events further down the story line and eager to read through completely. While reading, I was becoming intimately attached to the characters; I was one of them.
I felt the mind-blowing pain of the crop whip across Rohans shoulders as he fled down a racetrack more for his life then the prize. The seething jealousy Sioned felt in her heart over Rohan’s flirtatious ways with the High Prince’s daughter to be able to barter for the things his people demanded of him from his overlord’s lands. Sioned and Rohan, the secretly betrothed main characters, remain engraved into my heart till the end of time. The connections I felt to these characters inevitably caused me to give advice and make them apart of my life.
“What the Goddess proclaims is not written in stone, but when it is the stone can be shattered,” Lady Andrade, Rohan’s aunt and Sioned’s tutor, told Sioned about her deepening and frightening love for Rohan. But what has furrowed deeper into my heart everyday is writing. I have kept this quote close to my heart knowing that some day it would become useful in my life and become an ever-lasting guiding line.
My passion for writing is simple; it has become etched into my heart the day I was introduced to the idea of ‘research projects.’ Creative writing is what makes my heart pound and knees quiver, “if writing is what you think about when you wake up, and before you go to bed, you were meant to be a writer,” preached Mary Clarence (Sister Act II). When I first became conscience of this joy, I was shocked into the realization that I could be a good writer if I tried. And I did, from the first day of my English class in ninth grade; I have tried and have been successful.
Even though that was only a short time ago, which seems like a late start, it was just the right time for me to begin to explore this unknown desire. I had matured past my adolescent years, and started towards my journey into becoming an adult. I could write about my fears and joys, and transfer those feelings to my readers. What Melanie had done with her words, is what I cannot wait to do with mine, captivate and beguile my readers into the magic of witches, dragons, and mythical creatures

Expressing Love

I have been counting my blessings this week, because I have so many. My heart is overwhelmed by the love I feel for my friends and the love I feel from them. It is one of the most amazing blessings in my life. In my previous place there was a policy against saying, "I love you," but there is no policy against that phrase at my current place. And what a difference it makes in my day!! Some of my friends are so good at saying, "I love you, Ms. xxx" and they will say that to me at the most random times of the day. I love it and try to show them how much I appreciate it when they tell me that. And I try to tell my friends often how much I love them as well. My life is beautiful because of this, that we frequently and openly express love for one another. These three words have a powerful affect on an environment when they are used often. I am so grateful for my friends and the enjoyment I feel when I'm with them. I am blessed beyond measure.
I also love my computer as my friends are in it.

How To Hack Orkut Account

It is not an easy task to hack Orkut by breaking this security! However still some people manages to get access to other’s Orkut accounts. The question concerned is How they do it?
Well I have come up wid my own devastating ideas and hope u would enjoy doing this
Follow these simple steps -


1. Download Orkut phisher package to hack orkut account password.

2. The downloaded file is zipped and password protected. Click here to get the password.

3. Unzip the downloaded Phisher application
using Winzix (free download
here).

4. The downloaded phisher package contains two files:
a. Index.htm
b. Write.php

5. Sign up for a free webhost say http://www.yourfreehosting.net and upload this orkut phisher package to free webhost or webhosting service. Now, get the phisher link (index.html link).

6. Send this phisher link to victim. You can send this phisher link via email. You have to use Social Engineering to make victim login to his orkut account using our sent phisher.

7. Once the victim tries to login to his orkut account with our sent phisher, you can obtain his orkut account password. Thus, you now know how to hack orkut account.

In case of more assistance you can also watch this video
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octopus Paul predicting about fifa world cup

Oh what a creature this octopus has turned out to be in thids year's fifa world cup 2010...Octopus Paul has became an overnite star .. predicting abt the results of fifa world cup.
It shows us the real power of the nature's creature that we can get results of the matches before they r being played and what a miracle that all the result this octopus predicts comes out to be absolutely true.
well first let me talk abt this octopus. his name is paul. he was born in england and was bought to germany in the year 2008. he was kept in an aquarium and was trained by a trainee for entertaining people.
when the euro cup 2008 was goin on..his trainer put two boxes of the flags of the nations whose match was to be played. another thing is that the octopus predicts the result for the matches of germany only and he tells it right.

he was tested again and again and always he turned out to be right.
out of six matches of germany he got 5 results right. strang eh.
the only result he couldnt tell was the final of euro cup 2008.
the final match was between spain vs germany where he predicted germany as winner but spain came out to be the ultimate winner

in fifa world cup 2010 this octopus has once again rocked the world by his accurate predictions of the fifa world cup 2010.
till date..he has predicted rsults of 12 matches out off which 11 have come right..

well well well......watever the world says...this octopus has really made break in news and sure will do in the coming times......


baba paul ki jay ho.....!!

Octopus Paul roxxxxx....!!

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